Dating ladys with big buts
“I’ve seen many relationships, and even some marriages, that started in the gym,” says Jaclyn Sklaver, C. T., a coach and sports nutritionist at NYC’s Peak Perform. “We’re focused 100% on our workout, and it could create a negative feeling toward a guy, even if he’s drop-dead gorgeous.” The same goes if she’s wearing earphones: Unless you’re trying to annoy her, wait till she’s taken them off. Read: Don’t use every piece of equipment right after her or stay near her for hours. A last tactic: “Ask a staffer about her,” Sklaver says.
“If you’re into fitness and health, chances are you won’t meet somebody in a bar who fits your lifestyle. And make sure your impromptu close encounter doesn’t look like a bout of stalking. “We often have the lowdown; we can tell you if she’s single, married, psycho—we can even help break the ice.” Get her attention in a friendly way Start with “eye contact with a short linger,” Perkins says.
"If she smiles and 'lights up' at you or makes small talk, those may be signs she’s interested,” says Perkins. “She’ll politely thank you and go back to her workout—and possibly move to a different area.” When that happens, back off.Guys have typically been told never to hit on a girl at the gym—it’s, you know, creepy. If you’re both in a class, grab a floor spot near hers to stretch.But recent surveys have shown that, scratch the skin of any workout spot and underneath you’ll find a raging singles joint whose members—both men and women—have more than one kind of workout on their minds. “It’s more welcome to say hi in a class,” says gymgoer Diana K. “You’ve shared an experience, so you can bond.” But beware: “Never interrupt a woman when she’s midset or midexercise,” says Sklaver.But do ask to meet up another time.” Or simply offer a casual, “We should go out/get a drink/work out together some time. ” If she shoots you down or doesn’t mention it the next time, it may not be happening, Sklaver says. Notice how in my night game breakdown there is absolutely nothing about going on dates with girls.